The Filipino Values I Hope Will Remain in the Coming Generations

In more than two decades of my existence, we have identified ourselves as “NPA” - No Permanent Address.  We don’t have our own house or lot. My family and I have lived in Surigao City, Magpet Cotabato, and Davao City. (I remember we moved about nine times to different houses in those places, excluding the boarding house rentals when we started studying in college.) We've tried living in the city, on a farm, on the seaside, and by an estuary. That means we experienced a different type of community with diverse people in various settings and ways of living.

I’ve seen our people's values, which make Filipinos radiant wherever they go. Just as how our Ms. Universe Philippines 2023 Michelle Dee said, 

“…We are the true heart and soul of the Philippines – with the way we are hospitable, with the warm smiles. And we are the reason why the world keeps coming back for more.” 

I’ve seen how respectful most are towards the elderly - by saying “mano po”, the gesture of touching the back of the hand of an elder lightly on one's forehead. (I loved Jordan Rey’s ‘Mano Po’ speech during the 31st JITCO Japanese Essay Writing Competition. I also sobbed!)

Filipinos have strong family ties. We value our relationship with our families which also goes to the extended families. Special mention to our Filipino breadwinners. You are so strong, determined, and selfless. Don’t forget to take care of yourself and leave some pieces for you. So much love!

Find me with bangs LOL

Take a look at how hospitality is ingrained in every Filipino home – by showing respect towards others and welcoming the visitors with warmth, and generosity. Everyone shows good pakikisama towards their neighborhood – being considerate, valuing solidarity, and maintaining good relationships. (I want to tell more stories about this!)

In loving memories of Ate Len (my second mother) - The nearest to the fridge

Most Filipinos show strong faith and spirituality. Even though we are in a third-world country and experiencing poverty, we keep trusting that “God will provide” and always have hope by saying “puhon” – which means God-willing or “hopefully”. Puhon, things will get better. Puhon, we’ll have our time, because we did our best and hope that something good happens.

Despite the challenges we encounter, let’s remain grateful for the positive aspects of our lives and make a conscious effort to focus on the brighter side.

I deeply admire how Filipinos embrace simplicity and find joy in life. Even amidst the devastation of flooding and typhoons, our resilience and spirit shine through, and that’s why we are called “happy people” by other countries.

One of the things that makes Filipino lives lighter is the Bayanihan Spirit shown in every community. Where people come together and show communal support. See how many volunteers form an organization to gather resources and help those affected by calamities and who are in need.

My Personal Experience

When I was eight years old, our house in Surigao was tragically consumed by a fire. The flames reduced our home to ashes, leaving us with almost nothing. Thankfully, our kind neighbor stepped in with essential resources, providing us with immediate relief. Additionally, our church is offering support and helping to rebuild our home from the ground up. To further ease our burden, my Scholarship Donors provided school supplies for my siblings and me, ensuring our education could continue uninterrupted. Despite the hardship, the outpouring of support from our community brought a sense of hope and happiness, reminding us of the strength and kindness that can emerge even in the face of adversity.

What about you? Do you have any experience with any of the Filipino Values? I’d love to hear that!